Inability to rejoin after game crash


i see there are posts about the game crashing and being booted midmatch. Etc etc

My issue is the inability to rejoin these matches. I am usually in a party so I think that I can just go to join game to play resolve the issue.

However the game will say I am still in the match. Thus I cannot rejoin.

I have even completely restarted my xbox and still cannot rejoin. It sometimes allows me to rejoin after several minutes.